A Baby Naming ceremony welcomes the child into the family and community. For families who are not churchgoers and do not want a baptism or christening, but do want to celebrate the arrival of a new baby, a Baby Naming ceremony is a possible alternative.
A Baby Naming can take place at any time although it would be practical to arrange a ceremony when the infant is still very young. There is no formal recognition of a Baby Naming, and it is not strictly necessary to have an ordained celebrant. However, most interfaith ministers, non-denominational celebrants and humanists will be trained to offer specific ceremonies, or will be experienced in creating alternative Blessings according to the family wishes.
Elements of Baby Naming Ceremony
Venue
- The ceremony can be held anywhere: in the home or garden of the new baby, in a function room of a hotel, or in a natural setting. Think of what would be comfortable and convenient for the mother and new baby, as well as the family and friends who will attend.
Time
- Choose a time that fits in with the baby’s daily schedule, ideally between feeds. Make sure that the ceremony is no longer than 15 or 20 minutes.
Parents
- The parents may like to speak about their choice of baby name and any special significance or family history attached to it. At this time they could also speak of their happiness and directly welcome the baby.
Godparents
- Traditionally between 2 and 4 people are invited to become godparents. Their role historically was to ensure that the child attended church and was properly instructed in his or her faith. When godparents are invited to support a child outside of the church, their role is slightly different. They are asked to offer their emotional and physical support to the child through the growing years and into adulthood.
- The godparents can each offer a few words on their commitment to the well being and happiness of the child. A gift could be given at this time.
Grandparents
- The grandparents could light candles and offer their personal hopes and wishes for the life of their new grandchild.
- If the ceremony is in the family home, a young tree or a rose bush could be planted by the grandparents, symbolising the grounding and strength that the new baby is receiving during the ceremony, and their hopes for future healthy growth.
Brothers and Sisters
- If there is a sibling old enough to read, this could be a way of involving him or her. Choose something from a favourite Winnie the Pooh story orby author Dr Seuss to keep the mood light.
- For a younger child, allow him or her to present the new baby with a soft toy.
Certificate
- Create a large certificate with space for all the guests to sign their names. Include a photo of the baby and the date of the ceremony. This is a special keepsake that the child will treasure in later years.
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